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     Being a kitten can be a huge part of who we are and/or even part of our identity. Getting to be a kitten or partake in kitten play is so sexy and exciting! But what do we do when that kitten goes missing? Hopefully I can help with what to do while you await her return.

     While we might enjoy and absolutely adore being a kitten, some days that feisty feline just isn’t there. The first step to help is to not beat yourself up over it. It happens to every kitten! I know I’ve definitely had my dull hairball days. It can be very discouraging to you and your master when kitten isn’t on the prowl but it’s not your fault.

     Utilize this break! It may sound crazy but sometimes a break is needed. Any kink or lifestyle can be especially draining. Whether it’s mentally, emotionally, or physically. This isn’t to say that it’s bad! Just that the bowl of milk does eventually run empty. Use this time to explore other things (hobbies, headspaces, kinks) or dedicate it to self care and bettering yourself. Developing better habits outside of kitten space will definitely improve your kitten’s mentality as well.

     Once you’ve done all you think you could and have had your self vacation but you still find yourself lost, try going back to the basics. When you’re in kink, especially after several years, you learn all these things and always want to do big scenes or intense play. Sometimes it’s nice to take it back to just some handcuffs (of any material) and a paddle or old fashioned hand spanking. Maybe not even those things. Maybe you want a less strict more caregiver type scene. Regardless of how you want it, it’s nice to slow down and go back to what got you started into kink.

     After you’ve done your break, slowed things down and maybe have had your share of possibly trying to craft your own ears (and failing..a lot :/), find your favorite toy and milk bowl to relight that inner kitten fire. Taking a break from things can really bring joy and better appreciation for your kitten side. As well as what you loved and missed doing. I’m sure if you have a master, they will definitely be happy to find their favorite feline has come home!

     In conclusion, a break from anything is a good thing and remember to slow things down or reminisce in old times. Always know it’s never your fault if you feel kittenspace isn’t coming to you as easily as it was before. And in the end, if you feel that maybe that kitten has done all she can do and it’s time to move on, that’s fine too. That’s the lovely path of kink or alt. lifestyles, it’s your choice and your growth.

Hope this helps any struggling kitten! <3




18 thoughts on “When Your Inner Kitten Goes Missing”

  1. VioletNeko VioletNeko says:

    I loved this. Thank you for sharing, Luna <3 This is much needed and I know that I will come back to this when I find myself struggling to space

    1. lunawhispurr lunawhispurr says:

      Glad I share some tips to help my kitten sisters <3

  2. DeviantMynx DeviantMynx says:

    Thank you for sharing such a unique perspective on the lifestyle and personal challenges that we can all face. I’m available to chat if your inner kitten likes conversation.

    1. lunawhispurr lunawhispurr says:

      Thank you for taking the time to read and I will certainly keep that in mind <3

  3. TiffanyBelle TiffanyBelle says:

    Finally got to read this! I’m sure this happens to almost every kitten at some point, lovely, well thought out article idea

  4. Thank you for posting, I definitely needed that during this time!

  5. shelbiejlm shelbiejlm says:

    Refreshing take on our darker days! It’s always reassuring to know you’re not the only Kitten who goes through a funk on occasion.

    1. lunawhispurr lunawhispurr says:

      I’m glad I could provide that reassurance. The dark times are just as important to be talked about as the light fun times. <3

  6. Kyra Kyra says:

    The reassurance is lovely, I’ve definitely been going through this lately but it’s good to know it’s a common theme. <3

    1. lunawhispurr lunawhispurr says:

      I’m glad I could bring this to light to show other kittens that were sadly only human & there’s always someone out there who understands what you’re going through <3

  7. Paisley Paisley says:

    I relate to this, it can be hard sometimes to find a balance and find time to embrace being connected to the inner kitten side of yourself thoughtful article love, thank you xoxo

    1. lunawhispurr lunawhispurr says:

      It really is. Being I’m a bdsm lifestyler, it throws my whole world off track.

  8. says:

    You are absolutely right! The loveliest part of taking a break is finding that inner kitten again I often get wrapped in regular life and then I have this to come and enjoy and it melts my heart ❤️ thank you for posting such a special article!

    1. lunawhispurr lunawhispurr says:

      Thank you for reading it! I’m so glad I was able to write something that sparks with so many kittens <3

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